I wouldn't "run and tell everyone", even if I chose not to attend, or to stop by, say hello, not drink anything alcoholic, but just spend the evening having a good time with my friends.Lee wrote:If you were a 16 year old and your buddy's parents said, "Hey dude, we're having a party tonight and my parent's are supplying the booze!" What would you do? Would you go run and tell everyone what's going down or keep your mouth shut and enjoy yourself?
I don't think most kids are mature enough to get drunk and then take care of themselves in the myriad of ugly situations that can happen. Parents are supposed to be parents and not their kid's "cool best friend". That's why so many young adults are so fucked up. No one ever gave them rules to follow and then backed those rules up with some loving enforcement.
Parents Who Host Lose The Most. Or so the TV commercial says. Providing alcohol to minors is against the law. Period. I don't feel sorry for the stupid assed parents here who got busted. They are old enough to know better.
I know a number of decent, upstanding, productive-in-society adults who smoke pot on a recreational basis. I don't judge them -- and, you're right, it IS their choice. Smoking or possessing marijuana is also against the law. All the players know what happens if you get caught, and if you do, there's no one to blame but yourself, right?There's certain people in this business that do pot. Last I heard that's illegal too. But I'm not going to go and tell everyone about it. It's their business.
Consenting adults? Conscious decision?
If the law is no good, then change the law. But until the law is changed or ruled unconstitutional, it's still the law.







